Sometimes, you have to weigh out the positives and the negatives.. What did he gain and what did i gain? Sometimes, mostly, he will win.. But the point is that we probably learnt the most. And maybe thats enough. Maybe. So hey, i've been used.. But it happens, its a way of life.. Its a source of life in itself. I'll just simply be content with walking away knowing that this makes me to good for him, for now my wisdom is so unrecognisably beyond his